Maybe you just found out you’re pregnant. It was unexpected and while you’re trying to wrap your own head around it, you are also worried about what other people will think when you tell them. I imagine that has to feel so heavy.
I wish I could tell you that everyone will be excited for you and that everyone will support you. It’s really sad that I can’t do that. Everyone has their own opinion, and unfortunately some people don’t know how to put themselves into someone else’s shoes.
No one will walk the exact road you are walking. Your journey is yours and yours alone. And while that could seem scary, it’s also so precious. You get to decide where your story goes from here.
It may be hard to tell others you’re pregnant, especially if you don’t think they will support you. You are allowed to take your time—there is no rush to share the news. It’s okay if you need time to process it yourself before hearing the opinions of others.
I’d like to encourage you to seek out guidance from someone who is unbiased and disconnected from your situation. At Cecil Pregnancy & Family Resource Center, we strive to be a safe place where you can share what you’re feeling without judgment. We would love nothing more than to help you talk through your feelings and help you discover the strength that lies within you.
You are stronger than you think you are—don’t let anyone’s opinion make you feel otherwise.